Challenges in Life

Well leave it to my partner (Craig Caron) to give me my next post idea.  He was so right in how we face the challenges in life that will either make us  stay where we are (in our comfort zone) OR we will move forward and keep growing.

It’s really funny how we can go thru life and it’s such little things that scare the crap out of ya – yet when you have time to think about it – you really wonder what is it that is causing that fear or what is preventing us from doing what we should be doing.  So I have been thinking about this and here I am going to give you my two cents on this subject.

A person goes thru life and can get in this comfortable state with what they are doing – this can even happen in a marriage – you have been married for so long that you are comfortable with each other but yet you don’t love each other anymore.  The reason I bring that up is I was there done that – it’s like you are going thru life existing and NOT living.  I heard that from my friends after the fact – a person doesn’t even realize it when you are in that situation.

Well this happens thru out a person’s life – you can either stay in your comfort zone OR take that step outside (sometimes needing a nudge – like I got tonight lol).  My example here was that Craig asked me if I would start the webinars for Family Networker – do the introduction and tell what Family Networker is and what we do – well it was something about speaking to everyone in a webinar that brought the ugly head of fear up.

I told him I would have to think about it and his reply back – you need to be a doer and not a thinker.  He also stated that unless you start doing it now you are never going to conquer this and move forward – he was sooooooo right (don’t you just hate it when people make sense lol)  The funny part is that I do this on a daily basis now with so many and don’t know why this was such a big deal – I think it’s that fear of so many listening – like speaking in front of a crowd.

Then, I remembered Oprah today SUZE ORMAN’S INTERVENTION WITH OCTOMOM NADYA SULEMAN – wow that was an eye-opener – but one thing popped out at me when she asked her why she didn’t want to do TV appearances with the kids to help earn money to feed them and her answer was she was afraid at what people would think.  Suze said who cares – they are going to think it anyway and the only goal you have here is to move forward right now and find a way to feed all those kids.

So the bottom line here folks is that there are going to be challenges in life that scare the crap out of you – but unless you conquer those fears that ares holding you back – you are never going to move forward – you are going to have to step out of that comfort zone even when you don’t think you can – how do you know until you try.  The question to ask here is – do I want to be at this same place (in my comfort zone) a year from now or do I want to do what it takes to keep growing and moving forward – it’s up to you.

“Challenges: we all have them. The difference is how we handle our challenges. To have less stress in your life – deal with your challenges!” Catherine Pulsifer

“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.” Dale Carnegie

“When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it.” Henry Ford

“The obstacles you face are… mental barriers which can be broken by adopting a more positive approach.” Clarence Blasier

Are YOU Teachable?

Life is full of lessons….starting from our childhood, when we are taught proper manners, right from wrong, good from bad, listen before you speak, don’t judge before you know the facts, and so on…..where does all this life education go as we evolve into adults?

It’s because we are teachable creatures – whether we think we are or not. We learn from our environment – and our environment tends to mold our thoughts and opinions, particularly as we grow older. This turns into your way of doing things BUT my question is that working for you?

Since my online journey, I have found out alot about myself and often see this in others. When I first started – my thinking was that – being an adult with an education – how hard can this be to get on here and find something to earn some money with.

Well, I stumbled upon a few things that made me money but it wasn’t until I admitted to myself that I needed to dig in and learn more – that it’s not as easy as you think when you first come online with all the getty up and go that you have – you will soon run into a brick wall.

When you finally do and you will – now either this is going to knock some sense into you and you are going to start to realize that what you have been doing is NOT working – well then you need you ask – are you teachable.

The other reason I come up with this thought as I find sooooooo many that say they want to learn, they need to know how to do this and that, and yes they want you to teach them the how to’s.

Okay, I am laying out the rant warning – yes, I have my opinion, but behind my opinion is a genuine passion for what I do and why I do it. If you want to take my passion and call it something else, then you are exact person this rant is aimed at.

I have seen a couple of people come and go from Family Networker in the past several months. Every single one has come to the Family claiming they are teachable. Yet, a few leave Family Networker stuck in their old habits, their old way of thinking – and we wish them well on their journey.

I have learned a lot in the past several months, and I know many of you have as well. If you are not one of those……WHY? Is it so hard to open your mind, take in another perspective of how to do things, and make an attempt to apply what you are taught – especially when you are faced with concrete evidence that it WORKS?!

I’m simply going to say this and move on with my day:  If you are truly teachable, and share in my genuine passion to become successful, then soak in as much of the Family Networker teaching plan as you are humanly able.  But………If you plan on coming into the Family, thinking you know it all, and are just curious- for whatever reason that may be – do us all a favor: Don’t waste our time or yours. Folks who make a joke out of our program detract from the time and effort we could be devoting to folks who genuinely need and want extra help.

I speak for myself here, but I would wager I speak for others as well – I am happy to spend hours helping someone if that means getting behind in my daily tasks. But nothing irritates me more than having to spend hours on someone who is causing drama and headaches because of their self-righteous attitudes and mindsets.

Make the most of Family Networker…..or make tracks and leave us in your rear view mirror. But always remember, we will be here when your journey crosses our path again.

Who and What is Family Networker

You know it’s interesting to see all the changes that happen online – new programs start up everyday but finally a program that is here to help and teach you network marketing from a group of network marketers that are willing to share their tips and secrets for free.

Family Networker is absolutely the best marketing training around.  Nothing beats one on one training and the close knit family we have.  We have the best team around that encourages, motivates and move you to take that step further each day.  At Family Networker,  you learn at your own pace with the free training provided and get support 24/7 from you team of mentors and coaches.

Who and What is Family Networker…………… Here are some of members views……….

Ellen Thorp

Jon Benton

Brian Schilling

Beth Stough

James Chastain

Anette Hultman

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Pretty awesome huh – I have to add to all these post and say that in all my years online I have never been involved with a program that is not about themselves and puts the focus on YOU and how they can help YOU.

Now that your know who and what Family Networker is – to get your help and start learning click here now http://familynetworker.com/

Tired of the idle promises???????

I know I was sick of them – offer after offer and then it was not what you expected or to get more info you had to pay 29.95 – uckkkkkkkkkkk

Well my partner, Craig Caron and I got sick of it and created a website that took all the BS out of things.  We have it set up for you to join and get the answers that you are looking for, be provided the training that you need to grow your online business.  We have built a team of mentors and coaches that help you along the way.  Other successful business people that got tired of all the BS also.

The best part is that it’s free – yea I know bet  you never expect that huh?  Here is reason, when you are first starting out – you don’t have the money to keep investing in this 29.95 program all over the place – you need the training and you need it NOW.

Here is the reason for Family Networker – this gives you the platform for that training, gives you the mentoring that you need, gives you the support that you need, and has a Skype support room full of coaches and leaders willing to help you.

So what is the catch you are thinking – there is none.  It’s just that there is a need out there and a demand.  This is the best way to be successful online – helping others – I had a mentor tell me once – Nancy – stop chasing the money – keep helping others and the money will follow – you know he was right.

This DOES NOT happen overnight, there is NO BIG RED EASY BUTTON – it’s take work on your part with the willingness to learn and most important the desire to take ACTIONAll the training in the world won’t do you any good if you are not willing to take ACTION.

If you are at this point, then Family Networker is here for you – check us out

http://familynetworker.com/